Catharine Maria Sedgwick to Eliza Cabot Follen Transcribed by Alyssa CarrizalesTranscribed on Primary Source Cooperative2024

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1Lenox 20’ July 1825 -- Dearest Eliza

You are before this apprized by my letter to Mrs Channing of the reason why I have not written to you -- My mind has often turned to you my beloved friend -- to the tones of your voice to your sweet face -- as we recure to the last bright gleams of daylight after the night has closed upon us -- -- --

My journey after we parted was far more agreeable than I expected -- the first days ride was delightful, and even after Mr Appleton left us, and I was fairly consigned to the unwonted grandeur of the Coach, I was made very happy and comfortable --

Mrs A submitted to the few inconveniences that occurred with patience and grace -- and I donot doubt made herself quite a heroine at all the Inns by her grace courtesy and condescension --

We arrived at S late on Saturday Eve'g -- and early Sunday morn'g the express arrived from NYork with the intelligence that our dear Egbert was there and just alive -- -- My Brother and Sister were on their way in less than ten minutes, and I followed with their eldest daughter in the course of an hour -- We overtook them before they arrived at Hudson -- and I was very thankful we did so, for my Sister needed all the support that I could afford to her -- You know we found him 2 alive -- Oh what a word is that when your own existence seems suspended on it -- --

When George told him that his father had arrived -- and then added after a moments pause “and Mother -- and Aunt Catharine -- “That is too much” he exclaimed -- And then dear Eliza we had to meet this dear child who had left us with his youth and beauty unimpaired, whom our tenderest thoughts had hovered over, and who had exchanged with us the most ardent expectations of our reunion -- -- to meet him with composed faces and tearless eyes -- and thank God we were enabled to -- even his father and mother -- and he smiled on us with supernatural sweetness -- kissed us again and again -- and expressed in all the calmness and patience and piercing tenderness of his last hours that the anguish of death was removed -- that his most ardent prayer had been granted illegible in being permitted to die among his friends --

There was something beautiful in George's devotion to him -- he was as intent as a mother upon her only child, and oh it was most touching to see these young brothers -- George performing with composure the last tender offices, and Egbert again and again drawing him to him and kissing his lips -- -- and then his father at the last moment held him in his arms, and in the ecstasy of his feelings blessed God aloud for permitting him to enfold his dying child -- -- and so much were his parents inspired by the completeness of his 3 preparation -- by his heroic self-command -- by his christian resignation -- that they laid this child whose life had gratified their affections, their pride, and their ambition they laid him in the grave with thankfulness -- -- praise was on their lips and christian submission in all their actions --

My dear Eliza -- I do not weary you I am sure I do not -- You know how difficult it is to turn the mind from the subject that masters all your thoughts -- and besides it is not a mere selfish indulgence -- You will not only be willing that I should think and write of this dear boy who I loved with all my heart -- but you will love too to dwell on his sweet image -- on those beautiful affections that are now a part of that treasure that is laid up in Heaven

God grant my beloved friend that this event may have an abiding influence on me pray for me Eliza that it may make me more worthy of your love -- more earnest in my preparation for that departure which is near to us all -- -- Oh how have I been rebuked by the example of this sweet boy -- when I have thought how long I had held a christian profession -- -- how long I had lived, with all means of improvement about me -- -- --

Egbert seems to have left no duty unperformed -- every kind -- every consoling every disinterested attention to his friends was remembered when he laid in that dreadful ship -- with his bones pierced thro’ the skin -- without any food that he could relish -- with that agonizing cough and raging fever -- and mere common attendants -- Oh Eliza something is meant by these mysterious sufferings -- -- -- 4

I shall always think of my visit to you with gratitude for the many and most undeserved hospitalities which I received -- but such bustle and gaiety and self seeking is not good for me -- and thank God it does not engage my affections -- and I now only think with satisfaction of those pleasures that I had in intimate intercourse with those I love -- dear Eliza -- I feel deeply grateful that I have been permitted to be so much with you -- that you have gratified my fondest wishes -- that you have in no one thing disappointed me -- and I have an eye that can see and I have watched you -- Oh how “narrowly -- narrowly” 1 ______

I am very desirous to hear all about your housekeeping -- How is my thriftie Mary? Tell her not to give up the blessing that rests on her own sweet name for the burthen of Martha’s 2 -- How is dear Susan? Has she returned from Newton? -- My thoughts will often dwell upon her April face -- exercised with alternate smiles and tears -- Remember me to all your brothers and all your Sisters including your favorite

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I found the basket at Stockbridge and it produced almost the first smile that had been on my face since I left you -- and those beautiful -- beautiful lines -- Oh Eliza I cannot doubt that some of those oriental wizards have put magic in the web of this same basket

Your little friend Fanny remains faithful to you, if asked -- who she loves -- she says “My mother and Miss Cabot” -- Kate is quite scandalized that I am not writing this letter to Aunt Louisa Minot to thank her for her workbox -- do give my best love to Mr & Mrs M _

Love to all your household, and do not let the sweet children forget me -- Jane Elizth and Charles all send their kindest love -- Jenny and Lizy, are going over to day to see Sister Jenny the Elder --

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Miss Eliza Lee Cabot/No 1 Mount Vernon/Boston --

1825 is written in the upper right margin of page 1

Likely a reference to Sir Walter Scott's poem, part of The Lady of the Lake (1810), excerpted and variously titled "Hunters Watch So Narrowly, Narrowly" and "Hunter's Song."

A reference to the Biblical sisters Mary and Martha, whose story, along with that of their brother Lazarus, is told both in Luke 16 and John 12.

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